I totally agree. Even "mere" breast feeding is still full of mysteries that developed during the millions of years of mammal evolution.
https://open.spotify.com/episode/2LCTSD4k9bNDn6i8DzLv9r?si=D...
We are in casual conversation here.
As far as I know, there's no (direct, retrograde) transfer of pathogens from the child to the mother through the breast. But if the child has an infection, there is often a higher chance for the mother to get ill as well (due to close body contact, aerosol particles, etc.) and to develop a "mature immune response", which could lead to a (delayed) positive secondary effect on the child through passive immunity.
There’s no evidence that says formula is detrimental, especially compared to not eating enough at all.