Unless you're doing anything at all to help, maybe try being a little less cynical about the people who are.
C.f. Mpesa; westerners generally wouldn't think of payment over SMS, because they don't have the right lenses.
"Hello, I, a benevolent westerner am tasked with explaining how poor you are to others but will never think of you after today or do anything to improve your condition. However, I am very serious about my role of explaining how anyone that trys to help or implement incremental solutions is a bad person."