(No affiliation with them; I'm working with a Ph.D. student studying this question.)
I'd say that one advantage of ham is that you can operate it on much lower power equipment still - there's no such thing as a starlink HT yet, although we're starting to get close with cell phones with emergency satellite messaging. But starlink has a bandwidth advantage if you need to send photos or tunnel cell. Different capabilities - it's good to have both!
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The FCC just gave emergency authorization for Starlink to enable direct-to-satellite service for T-Mobile customers in western North Carolina. It's my understanding that this is what Starlink was planning on releasing but they are doing a live beta right now.
https://arstechnica.com/tech-policy/2024/10/fcc-lets-starlin...
Amateur Radio operators are a unique cliquey bunch with practices not easily understood by those who aren't inculcated into the culture.
In those cases amateur radio will be only useful for saying goodbye to all of your frequent QSOs before the tidal wave hits your location in Denver.
I've been a licensed ham for 30 years. I'm also a realist.