Never claimed as much. The point is Hamas and Hezbollah explicitly target civilians. (The October 7th raid had a modest CCR of 2:1 inasmuch as there were 766 civilian and 273 security casualties [1]. Break down some of the raiding parties, however, and the CCR is much higher. Comparable to some of Israel's worst raids, or Russia's war in Chechnya.)
> IDF has killed orders of magnitude more civilians than either
This is how multiplying a big scalar by a smaller ratio works.
[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Casualties_of_the_Israel%E2%80...