> I'm not saying this is universal
It's probably not universal, but I bet it's more common than most people want to admit.
It's probably not universal, but I bet it's more common than most people want to admit.
It's embarrassing how long it took me to realize that; for years I wondered why I enjoyed working on my personal projects but not my paid work, despite them being nominally the same thing, and eventually I realized it was because I made the decisions on my personal projects.
Not to deride things too much. I'm trying to get better about it, surrounded by good suggestions... I'm just categorically exhausted