This article is as good a place as any to share a story on this topic.

A friend from early in my career went on to become a fancy tech executive. They invited me to a party at their house in SF that included some of their fancy tech executive friends. At some point I inserted myself into a conversation they were having about buying homes in Big Sur: "But isn't it quite a long drive from here?"

They answered: "Oh, it's not so long if you take a helicopter."

The lives of the fancy are beyond my imagination!