Ask HN: Which database should I use?
I'm not a huge fan on SQL because the more relations you have the more complex your JOINs become. It becomes a nightmare. I don't want to go down that path.
I've used mongodb before I switched to surrealdb, and it was pretty good for simple stuff, but for more complex queries it also becomes difficult. Also scaling it requires knowledge I currently don't have nor do I care to learn.
I'm looking at edgedb, cockroachdb and possible just got old fashioned mysql again if I have to do sql all over.
Are there any new dbs that have re-invented SQL at all besides surrealdb?