honestly sucks trying to build a large web app with just the go stdlib. The stdlib is amazing but it is not all you need for a good dx experience.
When you have an insufficient stdlib, you often get compatibility issues, where things don’t compose. So you get these kind of pseudo-std mega frameworks like Tokio instead. It was a while ago I was deep in JS but I remember similar things there.
I will say that I do prefer Gorm only to be used to scan the table -> model, I'd still rather write the sql by hand but I also don't want to scan the rows every time. But other than that I really cannot think of what it's missing.