You can't get the domain name you want for the price you want to pay.
Boo-hoo.
I can't get tons of things for the price I want to pay.
That's life.
You've got no moral claim on a domain name that someone else already owns.
If you're use of that domain name is going to generate a ton of value, you'd find a way to get the money and buy the domain.
In fact, you don't do this. The market is working properly: you're not prepared to demonstrate with cold hard cash that you're the best use for the name, therefore you probably are NOT the best use for the domain.
* UPDATE *
Just noticed this:
> when multiple people register a backorder on the acquiring backorder service, there’s an auction held for a few days and the domain goes to the highest bidder. It’s capitalism at its not-so-finest.
What alternative do you propose? The person who really really wants it bad gets it?
Isn't that what's already happening?