If you want a more specific answer ask a more specific question - don't just keep rejecting answers by adding new conditions. Just tell us what it is you want done.
Try asking.
How would you ask? What if you cannot meet them physically?
Say you email them; what do you do if you don't get a response?
Ask straightforwardly. And if they don't reply, it's either because spam trapped it and they'll never see it or they didn't think enough to just say No. Don't annoy.