The Cybergypsies (Indra Sinha, 1999)
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The modern reality is that the arrival of dozens of semi-homeless people with no visible means of employment, sanitation and waste disposal is generally unwelcome (and certainly isn't romantic).
I do also maintain the chance that they just managed to integrate better by luck, so it's mostly their historical tropes that remain. No clue.
There is definitely a prevalent romanticization of other cultures in NA that I feel is a lot less significant elsewhere, so I do see you point too though.