For me "get out of my way" means i don't wanna have to configure-reconfigure-rereconfigure it every week and i don't wanna have to learn a new language for that.
I don't wanna have to go through a "video" (hi nwm) to show me how it works.
I'm ok with a 5min first time setup and 5min reading the man page, then that's it.
Most tiling and "minimalistic" wms fail at that.
So i'm using KDE/XFCE/etc. Heck, KDE's kwin tiling mode is just fine.