Um, isn't that just how the brain reacts to everything? If you have sex with your wife every day, unfortunately you'll also get bored or driven to trying more and more kinky stuff (having her dress like princess Lea and what not).
Um, isn't that just how the brain reacts to everything? If you have sex with your wife every day, unfortunately you'll also get bored or driven to trying more and more kinky stuff (having her dress like princess Lea and what not).
I won't pretend to know much about the science behind it, but my understanding is that a habit of porn removes the link between being horny and then becoming sexually aroused. So instead of getting an erection because you see your sexy wife, you're getting one because you're so used to watching porn at 2 am before bed. And the extremely graphic and immediate nature of porn means that habit is a very strong one. It's like a chocolate bar in the immediate gratification and overwhelming of your senses. Whereas sex with a wife is more like a delicious but wholesome meal you sit down and enjoy. And that continues to be delicious no matter how much you eat it.
Oh, and since when was wanting your wife to dress up as Princess Leia seen as kinky? :P
Eating the same "wholesome meal" for twenty years will get boring no matter what. Throw some chili sauce on that shit and spice it up!