I don't see any way you can possibly justify that claim. So you're saying the
deliberately hostile software, which
will cause damage if you install it, is somehow better than the software which can accidentally damage your computer? Even if AV is dangerous 99.999999% of the time (which I think is a bold claim), it would still be better than something which is malicious 100% of the time.
Also I note that half of your argument basically boils down to "it has vulnerabilities". But as bad as that is, it's still not as bad as being exploited. This argument is like saying "being immunocompromised is worse than actually having a deadly illness". It makes no sense.