SQL Server is a terrific product. And I detest most things Microsoft.
It can work well performance-wise and security-wise, but programming it can be quite a pain, and I feel that’s unnecessarily so, considering what resources Microsoft has at their disposal.
How much is out of the box or simple easy to access configuration not magic incantations either you need expensive courses to know or be battle hardened with years of experience is the question really
See also scalability sections in these artcles:
https://airbyte.com/data-engineering-resources/oracle-vs-sql...
https://futuramo.com/blog/oracle-vs-sql-server-head-to-head-...
https://stackoverflow.blog/2008/09/21/what-was-stack-overflo...