Airbnb has made me really appreciate a good old-school hotel. Find a nice one, and it's so much nicer than any airbnb I've stayed in.
But Europe's a big place, so I can accept that it's not the case everywhere.
But if you just want an apartment, go stay in a nice hotel.
I stayed at https://another.place in the English Lakes and it was delightful, and only slightly more expensive than an AirBnb in the same area. And like you say... I got breakfast included. Maybe hoteliers will see this as a sign that the pendulum is swinging back if they up their game.
If a hotel offered a kitchen be fine, but they do not.
Hotels and AirBnB are only interchangeable if you're looking at a hotel-length stay.