This comment covers it pretty well: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=42892253
Also, don't complain about downvotes.
Also, don't complain about downvotes.
Re: Downvotes - You said, "I asked a perfectly reasonable question and was downvoted", then went on to say something about downvoters having their blinders on. That's sarcastic complaining. In general, commenting on your own downvotes like that looks bad (underdog syndrome), is distracting, and also self-fulfilling (complaining about downvotes is something that invites downvotes).