IIRC, graphql is a means of papering over a bunch of legacy APIs. They removed foreign keys from mysql using it as a column store db, a vestige of the original LAMP stack still on PHP.
I don't think Meta infrastructural choices are applicable to most folk.
What does serverless land your average dev? A high AWS bill. Elastic managed Kubernetes stack? A higher bill.
Did you know that you can use YAML and provision actual cloud provider resources with boring tech? Welcome to Ansible. There is no need to recreate Linux network stack when you have the Linux network stack, and it actually works!
Quite a lot of hacky gak is required when you run node.js as a production public facing web service. A statically compiled binary won't invent novel code execution paths 4 days into a memory leaking runtime bender.
Boring tech is boring, I guess, even if it's new and shiny. Facebook creates tech to mitigate the pathologies their past continuously present.