Ableton Live at least is a phenomenally powerful tool for arranging and recording music in a way that is completely elastic and transformative. I’ve been using it for over twenty years to make records and every time I’ve wanted it to do more, somehow those features have been magically added on every version without me having to ask.
The thing with any tool is that one has to know what result one wants rather than focussing on the method.
Your post reads like you should maybe think about doing creative things other than music. And I’m sure we’d be all ears for the improved DAW that you never got round to writing yet.
Apple also made that tool for six-year-olds and their guitars. It’s called GarageBand. Some of those six-year-olds have made albums with it.