That is why I absolute love the quote from FFmpeg maintainers towards a drive-by complainer:

Talk is cheap, send patches.

https://x.com/FFmpeg/status/1762805900035686805

I see a lot of FOSS maintainers continue to engage and defend themselves against people who have demonstrated themselves as unwilling to contribute in any way, yet expecting that free work be done for them. I wish more open source devs will keep in mind that FOSS work is a gift they're sending out into the world, and it's a common good that anyone can contribute to. That is not to say ignore all criticism or user requests, just that you hold absolutely no responsibility to placate emotionally draining people - the project is just as much their responsibility as yours.