I hate that so many people don't know about Universal Media Server
Then came jellyfin, and as a breath of fresh air, all my problems were gone. In maybe 2 years since I switched to it, I can count on my fingers how many times did I have to fiddle with it for some reason. It just works, in the most common sense of ways, no crashes, no discoverability problems, nothing, just pure stable performance, I cannot emphasize enough how much of a chasm exists in quality and usability between jellyfin and UMS. While UMS feels like a piece of early alpha software that was abandoned, jellyfin is the rock solid , actively maintained alternative that got your back.
Universal Media Server is just bad software.