Have you seen the virtual pinball tables that emulate depth by tracking your head? It's a great effect
I think having something more or less like a rumble feature would do a lot too. Even if you just had a solenoid that thumps when hitting a bumper would make it feel a lot more realistic.
https://youtu.be/Jd3-eiid-Uw?t=147
Turns out that head-tracking parallax is surprisingly effective even without stereo vision. I'd guess there's some component about the effect working best when your head motion is large relative to the distance between your eyes, and also best for objects far enough away from your eyes that you're not getting a lot of information from the stereo vision.
I don't know exactly where those thresholds are, but I wouldn't be surprised if a pinball machine is in a regime where it works well.