You're the one buying him the underwear. Don't index funds outperform managed investing? I think especially after accounting for fees, but possibly even after accounting that 50% of money managers are below average.
After the scam came to light my friend said “if I knew I was paying for those dinners, I would have been fine with Denny’s[1]”
I wanted to tell him “you would have been paying for those dinners even if he wasn’t outright stealing your money,” but that seemed insensitive so I kept my mouth shut.
0 - a local steakhouse had a portrait of this guy drawn on the wall
1 - for any non-Americans, Denny’s is a low cost diner-style restaurant.
Paying someone to match your risk profile and financial goals may be worth the fee, which as you pointed out is very measurable. YMMV though.
I'm just a layperson, so I might be wrong in some way that I don't understand