This is a straw man: nobody asked you to.
> the minerals deal was actually a pretty fair offer the way it was worked out
There was nothing fair in that mineral deal: the US would get resources and Ukraine was getting... nothing. No security guarantees, no military support, nothing. Trump said it himself: he wanted it to get back what the US spent helping Ukraine so far.
Getting something for nothing is fair to you?
> as dress for the occasion
The is the King of Saudi Arabia at the white house: https://www.gettyimages.com/photos/president-obama-meets-wit...
This is the pope at the white house: https://obamawhitehouse.archives.gov/blog/2015/09/25/photos-...
This is Elon Musk giving an interview in the oval office: https://edition.cnn.com/2025/02/12/tech/elon-musk-x-oval-off...
Did they all disrespect the US?
Ukraine is sending its youngs to die to keep Russia (the west common enemy) at bay and your concern is... Zelinsky wearing a tie?