From images: information _is _ the differences between pixels
From opinions: my opinion alone is worthless, but a difference of opinions? now we've got something
From relationships, graphs, networks: edges are _differences_ between nodes. the edges are everything. nodes alone... are meaningless
From music: this one is a little easier to take at face value, you can't have a sound without a change (difference) over time. the speaker cone can only wobble...
Not sure about the absoluteness or correctness of this intuition, please criticize