In cases like this where it is third party (in this case FedEx), there’s no way to manage that.
Technical solutions always fail to solve social trust problems.
Unless you live in a detached home, "overnight shipping" just means someone's going to call you at 5:30am asking how to enter your apartment and then try again in two days when you don't pick up. One time I did this dance for a week because they kept coming at 4am, and I feel bad for them too, but c'mon "4am-8am" delivery, and they don't have Amazon Locker access?
I wish I could disable it permanently.
Never did find out what happened to it, fortunately the seller was willing to send a replacement to make it right.
When the compensation for stolen items starts being taken out of their pay, they will stop ignoring it.