There's a potential alternative to streaming, though - succinct storage of XML in memory:
https://blog.startifact.com/posts/succinct/
I've built a succinct XML library named Xoz (not integrated into Xee yet):
The parsed in memory overhead goes down to 20% of the original XML text in my small experiments.
There's a lot of questions on how this functions in the real world, but this library also has very interesting properties like "jump to the descendant with this tag without going through intermediaries".