NASA astronauts tell of space odyssey and reject claims of neglect
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But the invective from "the other side" of this story has a more loosy-goosy view of what can be said, uses loaded words which make NASA PR people wince. "stuck" and "rescue" are very emotive ways of talking about a situation which probably has 99% common ground to facts.
"they refused our help" is another key phrase I've seen (or variants of it) which is again, emotive. NASA had a plan. It wasn't the plan SpaceX wanted, but not wanting the same plan isn't a refusal in the sense meant.