I think Netflix does use an Envoy-based Service Mesh [1], and they roll their own control plane.
https://netflixtechblog.com/zero-configuration-service-mesh-...
https://netflixtechblog.com/zero-configuration-service-mesh-...
Looking at Envoy access logs for example is more straightforward and simple aplroach, than running distributed ebpf and memory intensive large spark streaming job
Service mesh may have restrictions on the network protocols and may not cover all network traffic (like connections to Kafka and databases).