Your rationality here will surely be flagged. Over apologizing is the new norm to avoid being canceled for dissenting opinions.
Your comment evoking a victim complex on the other hand I find a far more annoying element of online discourse.
So often when I write a comment I find responses either missing the point, laser focusing on something offhand/tangential I wrote, or imbuing my post with a viewpoint I didn't make. Sometimes the fault is mine, sometimes the fault of the responder.
I state where I'm coming from not as some sort of "tribal identifier", but simply to add clarity, and to stave off misdirected responses that I can find annoying.