It sounds like you have constructed a way to encrypt data such that it can only be decrypted by someone who has the same (secret) key and (non-secret) associated data that was used to encrypt it, or else decryption fails.

As you said, same effect: the scheme you have described is not an alternative to AEAD. It is an example of AEAD. You're still using the offset as associated data, you just happen to be composing your AEAD scheme out of another AEAD scheme into which you pass an empty string as associated data.

Other than differences in the limit to the number of messages you can encrypt before nonce exhaustion or the number of bits of secrecy or authentication strength provided, the external interface and use case of your system perfectly matches that of AES-GCM or other popular AEAD constructions.