I'd probably smash a robot that swore at me or my family.
"Tell your c---t daughter to get off the street"
Will probably result in me looking for a heavy stone.
Swear words are literally fighting words whilst a robot cannot, legally, be assaulted. I'll take destruction of property to defend my daughter's honor to a jury of normies.
It needs to get to a jury and for that the prosecutor needs to think he'll win.
I doubt most prosecutors will stake their conviction ratio for a very sympathetic defendant.
(Except in San Fran and DC. There ill take whatever deal Im offered)
In the described scenario I'd be happy to find in your favor for intentional infliction of emotional distress, with negligence and vicarious liability and extra zeros.
But let's be honest: The thing we're both afraid of is a robot who can get impatient and emotional.