Maybe this is the "bitter lesson of agentic decisions": hard things in your life are hard because they involve deeply personal values and complex interpersonal dynamics, not because they are difficult in an operational sense. Calling a restaurant to make a reservation is trivial. Deciding what restaurant to take your wife to for your wedding anniversary is the hard part (Does ChatGPT know that your first date was at a burger-and-shake place? Does it know your wife got food poisoning the last time she ate sushi?). Even a highly paid human concierge couldn't do it for you. The Navier–Stokes smoothness problem will be solved before "plan a birthday party for my daughter."