maybe it's time to introspectto learn what? that the language was not good enough? that it wasn't marketed well enough? that there was not enough community support? not enough word of mouth?
lisp users say they have a competitive advantage, as do smalltalk users. even pike at a time had a competitive advantage in that it was/is more performant than other similar languages.
some of us in the pike community kept asking ourselves why pike is not more popular. the syntax is not obscure. roxen was a killer webdev server, 10 years ahead of its time. but no takers. why? (probably a mix of lack of marketing and community support/encouragement from the financial backers, but other languages become popular without backing, so what gives?)
my point is that most times there is nothing you can do. unless you have the marketing power of sun (java) or google (go, etc), popularity of a language is mostly a case of luck and serendipity (ruby, python) or filling a unique need that no other language could (javascript, rust)