Wouldn't that potentially leak data to the IDP?
And then the IDP gives you "yes the user with nonce 123456 is 18" signed with its private key, which you forward to the RP.
The only data "leaked" would be which IDP you used to the RP, and that there was an 18+ verification request to the IDP. The IDP wouldn't need to know which RP they're signing the proof for.
This does allow proxying the requests, but honestly, how locked down does this need to be? It's far easier to just snatch your parent's drivers license or passport at that point.