Since a year or two before the individual mandate ended (it was worth the fee), I dropped health insurance and self-pay for self and family; I pay now in a year for actual service what I paid in a month in premiums, mostly to dentist, without feeling any restrictions on seeking healthcare. I don't often need referrals, can self-order procedures directly, and the amount insurance says they "negotiated" is pretty misleading, often comparable to what I pay in cash without insurance. Since ACA was implemented, prior to covid, life expectancy in the US stopped increasing; not to say ACA is directly responsible (without more data), but whatever its net benefits may be are clearly losing out to other signals.

That said, our ... fascinating ... experiences ... in trying to get the government to fix our health systems is certainly no outsider's fault. Europeans and others can feel at ease continuing to mock us.