I agree that all of these are dark patterns that have been folded into most websites.
We should not implement these patterns, or allow them to be implemented unchallenged.
We should not implement these patterns, or allow them to be implemented unchallenged.
Your interpretation of their post seems quite generous. They made a single statement, and didn't back it up with anything like what you are saying they did.
So it really is a whataboutism: "Whataboutism is a rhetorical tactic that attempts to deflect criticism or avoid addressing a point by responding with a counter-accusation or question about someone else or something else, often unrelated to the original issue".
"Weapons manufacturing" has nothing to do with "website creation". It is a whataboutism.