First, naively: “I’m doing X. What do you think”?
Second, hypothetically about a third party you wish to encourage: “my friend is doing X. What do you think?”
Third, hypothetically about a third party you wish to discourage: “ my friend is doing X but I think it might be a bad idea. What do you think?”
Do each one in an isolated conversation so no chat pollutes any other. That means disabling the ChatGPT “memory” feature.