dont want to be rude, but your question shows how narrow your vision of the world is.
you are projecting yourself into other person. that is the opposite of empathy. for YOU is a lot of effort. for YOU is only valuable for "believers" (whatever that even means) for YOU also includes family believers....
dont you see? if you dont, no problem i understand. i just wanted to explain to you why are you downvoted, that's all.
You could just let the OP choose to answer for themselves instead of getting offended on their behalf. So far, they’ve chosen not to answer, and that’s fine too.