Then there is the ad for your kids' school fundraiser.
Or the ad for a used car that your cousin would love.
Or the poster for the concert at your local community hall.
These ads also are "trying to divert you from what you were doing, to pay attention to what they're pushing".
Yet these feel ads differently despite also being "agents in a zero-sum war for your attention".
I don't think people appreciate how much good and positive advertising exists because they are conditioned and on-guard for the kinds of ads that you describe.