What would your ideal EU democracy look like?
In Poland for example you can't get to EU parliament if you are not chosen by centralized party committee to run. You can't get in as an independent because your party needs to get 5% of the votes in the whole country. This means we not only can't vote on issues but we can't even choose people to represent us unless they get a nod from the party. Guess whose interests they are going to defend once in power.
This makes power completely detached from the voters. The only politics is inside the party. This is not democracy by any reasonable measure.
https://www.cbsnews.com/miami/news/ron-desantis-florida-elim...
You have a very valid point in that if you narrow it enough the argument loses weight.