> You’ll probably take this the wrong way but I have no other way to say it. If are not in grief over your past, you truly had a poor past, or you have not yet realized the significance of it.

Not GP, but this is absolutely wrong.

I had a good childhood with loving parents, I had many friends growing up, and I enjoyed my free time.

I also enjoy that it came to an end. All good things nust end, else they have no value.

This is mostly because I achieved nice things in life. In many ways the present is the best time of my life. I embrace change. I like my adulthood, and as I grow older I will enjoy my old age while my health allows to.

Dwelling in the past is unhealthy.