These people sound like they teleported straight out of a sociology classroom from 2017 or 2020 and didn’t catch what year it is. This whole puritanical bully culture is completely dead. Get out of your echochambers, and read the room already.
If you think rails is worth forking, fork it.
If you think it shouldn’t be used, don’t use it.
If you can’t be around a diversity of viewpoints, especially opinions that offend you, then get out of the kitchen.
It’s so typical of these people to wish everyone else to build the future they believe they deserve.
Do the work, or go to hell.