So you've constructed a strawman. Another indication of ceding the argument.
> and the answer we have from a whole bunch of people who are qualified
The ultimate job of a manager or a board is to take responsibility for the decisions of the organization. All of your comments in this thread center around abdicating that responsibility to others.
> This isn't actually an engineering hill I'd die on
Could have fooled me.
> we basically have djb against the entire world
Many of your comments indicate to me that clashing personalities may be interfering with making the right engineering decision.