I fortunately am unaffected by this. I choose to live where I do not need a car in the US.
I always find it interesting how smug people who live in the city and/or have little experience in rural America can be about these kinds of topics.
Allow me to be extra smug then. I live in a small town with an Amtrak station. It was hard work finding this place, but well worth it to me. It means I never have to drive an automobile again. That makes me happy.