Is this generally a way to determine when to split a compound word?
Another way to look at it: the verb doesn't magically grow together and apart if you use it in different tenses (past, present, future). "I am setting up" (present) is two words - therefore the "set up" in "I set up a script yesterday" and "I did not set up" also needs to be two words.
Looks like the commonality is that the second word in the pair is often one of (in, out, up, down).