The issue is that the field is still moving too fast - in 20 months, you might break even on costs, but the LLMs you are able to run might be 20 months behind "state of the art". As long as providers keep selling cheap inference, I'm holding out.
Dan Luu has a relevant post on this that tracks with my experience https://danluu.com/in-house/
For example, what would I need to run Open AI's o1 model from 2024 at home? Are there good guides for setting this up?
So technically you might be able to run a six month old model at home, but it would be foolish to do so from a financial point of view.
Or is there a way to get 128 GB of VRAM for a lot less than that?