> And how long did it take for binary attachments to be reliable, encodings unfucked, etc?
Oh I can't remember. Binary attachments have worked since I started using them long long ago. It worked at least in the mind-90s. Back then I was using both, Internet email and x.400 (HP OpenMail!), and x.400 was a massive pain (for me especially since I was one of the people who maintained a gateway between the two). I know what you're referring to: it took a long time for email to get "8-bit clean" / MIME because of the way SMTP works, but MIME was very much a thing by the mid-90s.
So it took a while if you count the days of UUCP email -- round it to two decades. But "by the md-90s" was plenty good enough because that's when the Internet revolution hit big companies. Lack of binary attachments wasn't something that held back Internet adoption. As far as the public and corps are concerned the Internet only became a thing circa 1994 anyways.
> As for group addressing, distribution lists are pitiful in comparison especially on discovery side.
Discovery, meaning directories. Those are nice inside corporate networks, which is where you need this functionality, so I agree, and yes people use Exchange / Exchange 365 / Outlook for this sort of thing, though even mutt can do LDAP-based discovery (poorly, but yes). Outside corporate networks directories are only useful within academia and governments / government labs. Outside all of that no one wants directories because they would only encourage the spammers.