I lack empathy and they lack discipline. Its not a black or white situation. People act like quitting smoking is like quitting opiates.
This is also called "executive functioning" and it's wholly dependent on your brain chemistry, i.e. the thing that is malfunctioning in addiction.
So yes, they lack "discipline" because discipline is also physiological, it's not just (and maybe not even primarily) a reflection of the person's character. By treating them as separate you're engaging in mind-body dualism.
How is it not black and white? You say "it's easy for everyone", I say "you're wrong".
If I'm right, you're wrong. If you're right, I'm wrong. It can't get more black and white than that.