And here we go with everyone losing their minds about what is almost certainly two unrelated incidents that happened to happen in quick succession. Just because something is improbable does not make it impossible.
Now if two F/A-18s crashed, that's more suspicious and could indicate a systemic issue in F/A-18 maintenance or operations. But there's a large difference between a helo and a fighter. Different parts, different maintenance procedures.
Overworked crews make mistakes; it happens. But when sailors decide a ship is unlucky, things get really bad.